Oct 19, 2020
You hold the ability to identify something you dislike in someone
else because that same thing exists within you. And in this episode
of the Deep Dive with me, Adam Roa, I chat with the unbelievable
Nicole Gibson on how we can come to the realization and fully
embrace the idea that what we see in others is what we also see in
ourselves.
Nicole and I dive deep into the divinity and connectedness we have
to everything and everyone at all times. With each person and each
of their actions, how can we find love and compassion? How can we
let go of our judgment and see from a place of understanding? How
can we relate to those who we believe have done wrong? How do we
have compassion while still holding boundaries in a loving way? How
do we remain connected while still claiming our
individuality?
Nicole Gibson is a fierce ambassador for mental health, motivation
speaker, multi-award winning social entrepreneur, CEO, and founder
of The Rogue & Rouge Foundation, CEO of Startup Apprentice, and the
former Australian Commissioner for Mental Health. Although she
prefers to see herself as an unstoppable messenger of love and
human potential, and truly believes there’s only one way to change
the world: to transform yourself by connecting to the deep part
within you that realizes your greatest
potential.
I’m honestly blown away by Nicole’s wisdom and I know you will
leave this conversation with the drive to search for the love in
everything and everyone.
What we discuss:
6:00 - How do you decide what is the loving choice?
9:30 - Navigating showing up as love in a digital
world
13:00 - Nicole’s experience showing up as love as the
Commissioner
19:30 - Owning and staying connected to your truth no matter
what
24:30 - Overcoming our ego’s determination to stay the
same
28:00 - Why what you see in others is in you too
30:00 - Extending your heart to those you are
rejecting
33:45 - Finding the understanding of other’s actions within
yourself
37:00 - Calming your nervous system to allow yourself to think
rationally and find compassion
42:00 - The power of forgiveness
44:00 - Why we need to model behavior for each other and give each
other a reference point
46:40 - Opening love up to others while still holding boundaries
for your own self-love
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